Miss Zelda Denise Kollock

  • Born: August 23, 1962
  • Died: September 14, 2013
  • Location: Columbia, South Carolina

Dunbar Funeral Home, Northeast Chapel

4219 Hard Scrabble Rd.
Columbia, SC 29223

dunbarfuneralsandcremations@stei.com
Tel. (803) 788-6310

Tribute & Message From The Family


COLUMBIA – A memorial service for Zelda D. Kollock, 51, will be held on Saturday, September 21, 2013 at 11:00 am at Dunbar Funeral Home, Northeast Chapel. The family will receive friends following the service at the funeral home.

Zelda went to be with the Lord on September 14, 2013. She was a daughter of the late Eddie McLeod and the late Annie Ruth Kollock.

She graduated from the University of South Carolina and worked in the social work field as a Program Coordinator for the SC Department of Social Services until her retirement in 2012; then for the NC Department of Social Services as a Supervising Manager for the Adult and Aging Services. She was a faithful member of Antioch Baptist Church and a member of the Esther Chapter No. 1 Order of Eastern Star, F. & A.A.Y.M Affiliate. She enjoyed traveling and especially her trips to Jamaica.

Zelda is survived by her brothers and sisters-in-law, Raymond and Shamarli Kollock of Waldorf, Md; Barry and Tonya Kollock of Stone Mountain, Ga.; niece; Jacqueline Ciera Ingram and a host of extended family and friends. Please sign the online guestbook at www.dunbarfunerals.com.


Condolence & Memory Journal

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You will always be in my heart. I will see you again .

Posted by Renee Fleming - Paterson, NJ - best of friends   November 07, 2013

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Barry, Raymond and Family,
My thoughts, prayers and love remain with you in your hour of bereavement. I continue to pray that the God of love will comfort your hearts and give you peace that passes all understanding in the months ahead.
Zelda was more than a friend and is truly missed. I will forever cherish the memories we made and it all began at Marlboro DSS.
Continue to lean on your Shepherd and HE will lean back on you.
With heartfelt and loving sympathy.
Ethel Littlejohn

Posted by Ethel Littlejohn - Bennettsville, SC - Friend (Big Sister)   October 12, 2013

I just learned of Zelda's passing. I was so upset to hear such tragic news about a beautiful, kind, friendly, intelligent woman. I was privileged to work with Zelda periodically when I was employed with DSS. So many will miss her.

Posted by Nikki Abee - Union, SC - Prior Co-Worker   October 02, 2013

Hope it comforts you to realize that God is with you every moment...along with all the thoughts and prayers of everyone who cares about you.

Posted by Rev. & Mrs. Samuel (Vondra Hollimon) Sparks lll - Hartsville, SC   September 29, 2013

I would like to send my condolences to the family of Ms. Zelda Kollock. I am Carolyn Smith, and I remember several good times of Zelda and I playing together as children. Including the time(s) when her grandmother would make us peanut butter and jelly sandwiches after school. I am very sorry to hear about your loss, and I will continue to keep the family in my prayers.

Posted by Carolyn Smith - Bennettsville, SC - Friend   September 25, 2013

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Barry and Raymond ,on behalf of the Wright family in Bennettsville, we offer you our deepest sympathy.

Zelda was a wonderful person with a beautiful smile and a beautiful spirit to match.

We will continue to keep your family in our prayers.

Crystal, Stephanie, and Mrs. Barbara Wright

Posted by Crystal Wright - Elgin, SC - Friend    September 24, 2013

God Bless

Posted by Ann Bruce-Watson - Hopkins, SC - Sis. Order of Eastern Star   September 23, 2013

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To Raymond and Barry,
My heart goes out to you and your family with deepest sympathy. Zelda and I have been friends for about 20 years. We have had some good times together. Zelda I'm going to miss you and your beautiful smile. I'll never forget you.
Linda Moore and family

Posted by Linda Moore - Columbia, SC - Close friend   September 23, 2013

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Our heartfelt condolence to the Kollock family in the loss of your dear sweet Zelda. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Please know God is in full control and your beloved Zelda is resting in Him now. She will always be in your heart and a day will come when you will see her again. Be encouraged in our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Janice Carter

Posted by Janice Carter - Columbia, SC   September 22, 2013

I had the honor of knowing Zelda for over twenty years. My heart is broken and will surely miss her. She was always an effervescent and outgoing personality. Quick to smile and easy to laugh, she was a shining example of peace and joy. I would extend my deepest sympathies to her family and let them know she was special to everyone she touched.

Posted by Dr. Paul Downing - Columbia, SC - professional   September 21, 2013

May God continue to watch over her brothers and other family members at all times.

Posted by Isabell Quick (Bell) - Bennettsville, SC - Friends from the neighborohood   September 21, 2013

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My Dearest Zelda,
It was my pleasure to meet you because you brought joy to my life during the time that we were selling your previous house and you purchase the house that you enjoyed so much. You were the epitany of a Lady and knew just what you wanted in this world. Zelda, your life was so sincere and God will welcome you with open arms into his Kingdom. No more worries Dear, you have your peace.
God Bless you Zelda

Posted by Doris Howell - Columbia, SC - Friend and Realtor   September 21, 2013

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To the Kollock Family, my prayers are with you during this time. Zelda was such a fine person with that beautiful smile on her face. She will truly be missed.Our chain have broken. R.I.P. my Sista.

Posted by Yvonne K. Wilson - Irmo, SC - Former Co-Worker/OES Sister   September 21, 2013

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Zelda was a beautiful young lady. She always cared a smile and full of laughter. She grew up with her grandmother, mom and one of her sweet brothers Raymond. We pray for the family on today and the days to come.
God is always a pray away!

With love & sympathy,
Karen & James Clark

Posted by Karen R. Clark - Laurinburg, NC - Friend & Church Member   September 21, 2013

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Our prayers are with your family as you were such a loving person, who always had that great big smile and full of laughter. You have always spent your life sharing and caring for others.

Posted by Hallie Conyers - Sumter, SC - co-worker   September 21, 2013

I knew Zelda !!! I first met this lady 30 some years ago when I lived in PA. She was and has been a beautiful lady inside and out. Very pleasant person to be around. Always positive thinking. She was a jewel. She will be highly missed but God has a new angel in Heaven. R.I.P Ms. Zelda.....

Posted by Steve Ellebie - Charlotte, NC - Friend   September 21, 2013

To Zelda's family and friends:

I had to opportunity, as an Adoptions Specialist, to work with Zelda when she was a supervisor at Kershaw County DSS several years ago.

She was an intelligent, hardworking, and generous person. She was one of the kindest persons I have known. One of her greatest contributions, to the community, was her services for those children and adults who could not speak for themselves.

You are in my thoughts and Zelda is in my heart.

Susan Francum

Posted by Susan B. Francum - Lexington, SC - Former co-worker   September 20, 2013

From the children and grand children of the late James Lee McLeod brother of Eddie Mcleod. You have our deepist condolences and sympathy at this time. Bernadette Mcleod 359 Sumpter st Brooklyn New York

Posted by bernadette Mcleod    September 20, 2013

To the family of Zelda Kollock: Thinking of you with sympathy and the hope that time will bring comfort to your heart.

Posted by Melinda Solomon - Columbia, SC - Former Co-worker   September 20, 2013

Praying for the family

Posted by Darlene Zimmerman - Bennettsville, SC - Friend   September 20, 2013

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To the family my prayers are with you she is gone but not forgotten. Be BlessedQ

Posted by Linda Thomas Ellerbee - Bennettsville , SC - friend   September 20, 2013

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Our thoughts and prayers are with the family. We did not know Zelda well, but we will always remember her warm smiles and handshakes at Antioch Baptist Church.

Posted by Greg & Sarah Williams - Irmo, SC - Church Members   September 20, 2013

May it comfort you all to know that death cannot diminish the important ways Zelda touched your lives, that grief cannot take away the happiness you all shared, that sorrow will fade in time . . . but love remains forever.

In Jesus' love,
Reverend Shirley De Laine

Posted by Reverend Shirley De Laine - McColl, SC - Friend   September 20, 2013

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Keeping the Family and close Friends in my prayers. Thoughts are with the Family and Friends during this time of loss. For comfort and strength, know that God is and will allow Him, for He will comfort.

Posted by Stacy G McKiver - Bennettsville, SC - Family Friend   September 20, 2013

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"I am at a loss for words. I know there is nothing for me to say that will make your loss easier. I hope you can understand what I can't put to words."

Posted by Bertha (Loyd) Robinson - bennettsville, SC - Classmate   September 20, 2013

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To the Family,
Zelda has gone home to be with the Father. Although she will be greatly missed, take consolation in the pleasure and joy of having her in your life. Know that God is with you; if you allow Him, He will comfort you during this time of mourning.
Matthew 5:4 "Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted."

Deborah (Brown) Hardison & Family
Bennettsville High School Class of 1980

Posted by Deborah "Brown" Hardison - Bennettsville, SC - High School Classmate   September 20, 2013

Zelda was always smiling and laughing and full of life. I will truly miss her.

Posted by Dorcas Smith    September 20, 2013

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Family is in my prayers. I will always remember her bright smile. She was always helpful and cared about the people she worked with.

Posted by Karen Creech - Gastonia, NC - worked together in Gaston Co   September 20, 2013

Zelda was a dear friend to my sister, Madge, and a part of our family. Always a beautiful spirit and classy lady, we will cherish our fond memories. Thoughts are with you and we pray for your comfort and strength.

Posted by Cheryl D. Malloy    September 20, 2013

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I will always remember our laughs, dreams, and wonderful times we have shared. You are dear to my heart, and you Will be miss.

Posted by LouAnn White - Columbia, SC - Friend & Hair-Stylist   September 20, 2013

To the family, I pray for peace during your time of grief. I am truly sorry for your loss.

Posted by Monica Moses - Columbia, SC   September 20, 2013

May beautiful loving memories of your lost loved one forever warm your hearts.

Posted by Denise Edwards - Port Tobacco, MD - Co-Worker of Ray Kollock   September 20, 2013

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Only God knows why. Only God can heal the grief you are feeling. Only God can assure you that Zelda is at peace. Only God can help you all through this difficult time. I'm praying for peace in the midst of all that's happened and that our Lord and Savior will comfort you as only he can during this time.

Posted by Mrs. Dare Johnson - Washington, DC - Friend of Ray's   September 20, 2013

Praying for you and your family. Asking God to continually strengthen you.

Posted by Rev. Doris B. Smith - Bennettsville, SC - Resident of Bennettsville SC   September 20, 2013

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My god bless the family in
This sad lost and encourage
Them in their prays

Posted by Randy easterling - Bennettsville, SC - Friend   September 20, 2013

To The Kollock Family,

I lift your family up unto the Lord in this time of grief. I pray the Lord will be to you the comfort that your family needs. And when you have no answers to all the questions 'WHY'. For death leaves a heartache no one can heal. Love leaves memories no MAN can steal. Know GOD is in control and is there by your side. He understands the way you feel and knows the loss you have endured, so place your grief in God's loving hands.

Posted by Zelda Denise Miller-Gibbs - FREDERICKSBURG, VA - Childhood Friend   September 20, 2013

May God comfort the Kollock family during this time of bereavement.

Posted by Elijah Williams - Columbia, SC - Past Master of St Mark Lodge 629   September 20, 2013

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Barry and Raymond our prayers and condolences are with you. Remember to keep your hand in the Lords hand and he will help you get through now and in the future. We love yall.

Posted by Lizziephine and Valerie Moody - Bennettsville, SC - Cousins and Friends   September 20, 2013

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Zelda we will never understand why God come to pick the beautiful flowers first. But this one thing I do know, that you are in heaven with your grandmother and mother. More than anything, you are with your heavenly father who will take care of you and ensure your everlasting peace. Love forever. Family be blessed and know that one day you will see her again.

Posted by Judy Smith-Irvin - Columbia,, SC - friend/worked at DSS together   September 20, 2013

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Barry, Raymond and family, my thoughts and prayers are with you all. I am very sorry for your loss. May the Lord give you peace.

Posted by Velvin Miles - Bennettsville, SC - Friend   September 20, 2013

'BEHOLD, I SHOW yOU A MYSTERY; wE SHALL NOT ALL SLEEP, BUT WE SHALL ALL BE CHANGED. 1st Corinthians 15:51

We are sadden to hear about your loss.
we share your loss. I saw Zelda in March of this year in Florence. She, Tracie and I had a great time together. I will always remember that "special day."
May the God of Peace, comfort and strengthen you today and the days to come.

Posted by Jackie J. Palmer - Clio, SC - cousin   September 20, 2013

Nicole, sorry @ what happened may God keep u n your family close. praying for comfort. @

Posted by clare curry - columbia, SC   September 20, 2013

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May God comfort and strengthen the family of this beloved sister. Rest in peace Zelda.

Sandra

Posted by Sandra Williams - Sumter, SC - Co-Worker   September 20, 2013

You are in our thoughts and prayers. Zelda will truly be missed.

Posted by Johnny and Leevette Malloy - Columbia, SC   September 20, 2013

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Our Condolences, Sorry to hear of your passing. May God be with the family during your time of sorrow. You will truly be missed.

Posted by Mr.& Mrs.Ralph & Rose Townsend & Family - BENNETTSVILLE, SC   September 19, 2013

You shall be missed

Posted by Regina Hanley - Gilbert, SC - friend/co worker   September 19, 2013

To the family of Miss Zelda Kollock...she will be truly miss and continue to live thru us. May God strengthen and keep you in such a time as this. May God Bless you!

Posted by Robert Molden - Columbia, SC - Friend   September 19, 2013

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Zelda I was very sadden to hear about your lost. I remember growing up and visiting your house when I lived in Columbia as a child. Even though I have not seen you in years I will always remember the great woman you were. I know your in a better place.

Love, Rasheal

Posted by rasheal r pittman - charlotte, NC   September 19, 2013

Zelda, I did not know you for very long but your kindness and beautiful smile will be with me forever. I miss you.

Posted by Inez Toro - Gastonia, NC - co-worker   September 19, 2013

you be missed

Posted by Michael mclain - Bennettsville, SC - friend   September 19, 2013

Will miss you. From Michael L. Brown, Blenheim High School Class of 1980.

Posted by Michael L. Brown - Columbia, SC - High School and College Friend   September 19, 2013

My deepest condolences to the Kollock family for their loss.We will keep your family in our prayers.

Philippians 4:18

Posted by Valerie Conrad - Columbia, SC - Family Friend   September 19, 2013

Thanks for the wonderful memories and moments we shared... Remembered always and forever!

Prayers go up for the Kollock family

Posted by TJ Prioleu    September 19, 2013

Zelda's sweet spirit and beautiful smile will be a lasting memory to me.
My prayers are with the family, just trust in the Lord and he will direct your path, through grief, unbearable pain and all other.

Barbara Robinson Mickens

Posted by Barbara Robinson Mickens - Columbia, SC - Churchmember and friend   September 19, 2013

Zelda words can't express the way I feel. To have known you was to love you. You have been my friend, laughing partner, neighbor & so much more for the pass five years. I'm saddened that your gone but, I know that you are present with the Lord. I will miss the time we shared sitting in your living room sorting through your jewelry. As I helped you purchase more shopping will never be the same without you! My prayers goes out to your brothers & family in this time of sorrow.

Posted by Santanna Alston    September 19, 2013

To Barry and Raymond, my deepest sympathy go out to you and your family. Zelda was a very nice lady and she will be missed. Know that God's love will carry you through.

Posted by Mike Boston - Florence, SC - Friend   September 19, 2013

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Zelda will truly be missed by many. The first time I met her, you could feel her genuine spirit and see her smiling face. May God strengthen and comfort the family during the loss of your dear sister.

Posted by Tij'uana S. Rainey - Rembert, SC - Co-Worker   September 19, 2013

I pray for GOD's comfort for her brothers and sister-in-laws, not only during this time, but for the days to come. Knowing Zelda has been such a pleasure, and when Cordelia brought her into our family, she became our family member from day one. I will miss you and forever remember you Zelda for the wonderful person you were to everyone you met. Our family gatherings will never be the same because you will not be there. Heaven has gained a beautiful angel.

Posted by Nicole Cyrus Green - Columbia, SC   September 19, 2013

Zelda was my best friend. I will cherish our memories forever. She was a beautiful person someone I could talk to about anything. RIP my Zelda I will always love you like a sister.
What moves through us is a silence, a quiet sadness, a longing for one more day,
one more word, one more touch, we may not understand why you left this earth so soon,
or why you left before we were ready to say good-bye, but little by little,
we begin to remember not just that you died, but that you lived.
And that your life gave us memories too beautiful to forget.
Love Carol Evans

Posted by Carol Evans - Columbia, SC - Best friend   September 19, 2013

Z DA is name I started calling you over the years. I am still shock that you are gone. We just clicked as neighbors years ago. I recall us having drinks, hanging out at Secrets and just plain girlfriend talk about mens.Lol Missing U!! Love Lois Saxon

Posted by Lois Saxon    September 19, 2013

Z DA is name I started calling you over the years. I am still shock that you are gone. We just clicked as neighbors years ago. I recall us having drinks, hanging out at Secrets and just plain girlfriend talk about mens.Lol Missing U!! Love Lois Saxon

Posted by Lois Saxon    September 19, 2013

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My prayers are with you all. Zelda was a mentor and special co-worker. I learned so much from her. She was such a special lady. She will be missed, but remembered everyday.

Love,
Janel

Posted by Janel Mitnaul - Columbia, SC - Collegue   September 19, 2013

To The Kollock Family: I am sadden by the loss of Zelda. May the precious memories of Zelda see you all through the days ahead. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
God Bless,
Liz Drakeford, co-worker, DSS State Office

Posted by Elizabeth Drakeford - Columbia, SC - Friend   September 19, 2013

We are saddened by Miss Zelda's passing, but we thank God the blessings she left behind with us. May God comfort her loved ones, including Tracy McLeod, her best friend. We will continue to lift them up in prayer.

Posted by Stephen & Deborah masolwa - Columbia, SC   September 19, 2013

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I will miss her everyday smile always asking how you are and what are you doing today. I will miss her.

Posted by Cathy Baker - Gastonia, NC - friend and co-worker   September 19, 2013

I am so sadden by sudden departure. You were someone I truly looked up to and admired. You always carried a beautiful smile and words of encouragement for the younger generation. You will be truly missed.

Posted by Ferra Porter - Lugoff, SC - Former Co-Worker   September 19, 2013

To The Kollock Family:
Zelda was a lovely, beautiful, and confident person. Always had good leadership skills and compassionate for others around her. We worked together at DSS State Office. I will always remember her smile, laughter, and fashions always on "point". She was a wonderful person. My prayers are with the family and may god grant you peace and strength during this time.

Debra S. Kent
Co-Worker/ Friend

Posted by Debra S. Kent - columbia , SC - Co-Worker/Friend   September 19, 2013

To Barry and Raymond: Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May God comfort and strengthen you during this time of sorrow.

Posted by Mr. & Mrs. Fred Thomas and LaShawn Thomas Bridges - Bennettsville, SC - Former Church Members   September 19, 2013

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I will miss your smiling face most of all. A beautiful soul gone to soon. R.I.P. Zelda

Posted by Nola Thornton - COLUMBIA, SC - Friend   September 19, 2013

To the family of Zelda Kollock. My prayers are with you during this time of sorrow. May God be with you and provide you with the strength that you will need during this time. I worked with Zelda at the Kershaw County DSS office. She was such a beautiful person and a joy to be around. I will surely miss her smile and her as a true lady of style. May God Continue to bless you. Terry Robinson

Posted by Terry Robinson - Camden, SC - Co-worker Kershaw County DSS   September 19, 2013

I knew Zelda through our work with the Department of Social Services. She always had wonderful smile on her face and loved helping others. To her brother's sister-in-law's and neice I pray that God will comfort you during this time. Zelda is Gone But Never Forgotten. RIP Zelda.

Posted by Ronda F. Covington - Florence, SC - DSS   September 19, 2013

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My heart aches for you and your family during this time. Zelda was a beautiful and remarkable person. I will always remember her strength and smile. She cared deeply about her family. Zelda will be truly missed, but not forgotten. Please call upon me if you need anything. Mary C. Williams

Posted by Mary C. Williams - Washington, DC - Co-worker and friend   September 18, 2013

I would like to extend my deepest sympathy to the family. Even though I only worked with Zelda a short while, I learned quickly of her passion for life, her strong will, the extreme love she felt for her family, and her desire to serve children. Her smile, her beauty, and the twinkle in her eyes when happy will be fond memories for me. Although difficult to understand in such a time of sorrow, I am sure that Zelda's spirit is on a special mission. My thoughts and prayers have been with you since I heard the news. May God grant you peace of mind and spirit during this difficult time and in the days to come.

Posted by Tammy Bagwell - Clinton; DSS QA Columbia, SC - Previous Co-worker   September 18, 2013

Gone but not forgotten. My thoughts and prayers are with the family and may you find strength to heal as you mourn the death of your loved one. Zelda will be sadly missed by all who knew her.Those who mean the most to us are never gone; but in your hearts and in your thoughts, Zelda's memory still lives on.

Posted by Sallie Davis - Columbia, SC - Friend   September 18, 2013

We the Co-Workers of Zelda K. would like to let the family know that you have our deepest sympathy and condolences. We knew Zelda as a very energetic, out-going, wonderful co worker and we enjoyed having her on our floor and in our area. We used to stop by her cubical and talk to her through passing about various things, she always had that wonderful smile on her face. We will truly miss her deeply. Stay strong and may God keep and bless you all.

DSS Child Support

Posted by Co Workers at DSS Child Support Finance Department - Columbia, SC - Co Worker   September 18, 2013

To the Kollock family my deepest sympathy and condolences. I knew Zelda here at DSS Child Support Enforcement Divison where she worked with us for a while then later transferred to another department. Zelda was an all around down to earth, sweetest person you could meet and talk with. I have had several conversations with her about ordinary things, marriages and so forth. She was a joy and a pleasure to have known. God bless this family and give you all the strength you need to get through this time.

Posted by Gwen Felder - Columbia, SC - Co Worer   September 18, 2013

In Memory of our Sister: "...And when, one by one, each link shall fall away in death, may the parting be temporary and the
meeting eternal...Amen". The members of Columbia/Sumter District, Order of Eastern Star, F.&A.A.Y. Masons Affiliate, love you and will truly miss your physical presence. May God bless and strengthen your family.

Posted by Sandra Mickens McKie, District Matron, Columbia/Sumter District    September 18, 2013

To the Family,
We know Heaven has welcomed a very special person,but my heart still feel the sorrow and pain in the suddened passing of Sister Zelda. I will always have precious memories of our church password (Virgo to Virgo). May you find comfort in the presence of the Lord.
With Heartfelt Sympathy and Prayers!!
Sister Myrtle -Antioch Baptist Church

Posted by Myrtle Stephens - Young - Columbia, SC   September 18, 2013

To the family you have my deepest sympathy.I will miss Zelda. She was a co-worker and a friend. I shared many good and happy memories with her during our time at SCDSS. I will always remember how excited she was to start her new career in North Carolina. God will continue to comfort all of you. R.I.P. Ms. Zelda, To God be The Glory!

Posted by Janettte Scott - Columbia, SC - Co-worker, friend    September 18, 2013

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To Zelda's Family,
I would like to express my condolences to you. I am so sorry that such a senseless act left you without her. She will be greatly missed by us. I worked along side her as she did her thing to protect the children of this state. I enjoyed bumping into her around Columbia since she retired. My heart breaks for you all.

Sincerely,
Cynthia

Posted by Cynthia S. Lara - Elgin, SC - Collegue and friend   September 18, 2013

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May she rest in peace and the heaven gates shall open wide when she strides through to live eternal live with her maker.

Posted by Don Bradshaw - Gastonia, NC - worker   September 18, 2013

I always will love and miss you. You were a very special friend. My prayers are with the family. Love Letha

Posted by Letha McAllister - Columbia, SC - Friend   September 18, 2013

Zelda was a very special lady that I had the joy of working under at Gaston County DSS. She was a strong and courageous woman that I looked up to and enjoyed working with. She had such a love for life, God, her family and friends and I know that heaven is a better place with her there. She will forever be missed and I hope that God provides the ones closet to her with comfort in the days to come.

Posted by Christa Barbee - Gastonia, NC - Co-worker and Friend   September 18, 2013

A beautiful person. You will be missed.

Posted by Shirley J. Diaz - Columbia, SC - Friend    September 18, 2013

Zelda,a beautiful lady who will never be forgotten. I will you seeing you in church, sharp as a tack and smiling from ear to ear, making sure you spoke to everyone and shaking the hands of all the LOVED YOU. Rest In Peace My Sister, we will meet again, You are with a better keeper now and forever. Love You.

Posted by Pamela Lowman - Columbia, SC - Friend/Co worker   September 18, 2013

My thoughts and prayers go out to Barry, Raymond and their families. Your sister was really proud of the both of you. She was a special person and will truly be missed.

Posted by Tyrone Walls - Charlotte, NC - Friend   September 18, 2013

To the family of Zelda Kollock. This is so surreal to me. For as long as I have known Zelda, she has been so full of life and the kindest person. I will cherish our memories starting from grade school on. My continued thoughts and prayers are with you all. Zelda is in a better place where there are no worries or sadness. May god give you all the strength to endure this. Hold on to the sweet memories and it will lessen the pain each day. I will miss you Zelda!!!

Posted by Brenda Bethea Arnold - Prince George, VA - Friend, schoolmate, collegemate   September 18, 2013

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To the Family,I am truly sorry for your loss.I miss her beautiful smile,it was so contagious. To be absent from the body is to be present with The Lord.Rest in peace Zelda.Catherine whatley

Posted by Catherine whatley - Columbia, SC - Friend&Church Member   September 18, 2013

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Zelda was a beautiful person, one that kept a smile on her face and love in her heart. I will truly miss her...

Posted by Nekica "Kiki" Sanders - Charlotte, NC - co worker/friend   September 18, 2013

A Poem for Zelda

God picks a flower
Sometimes God picks a flower that's still in full bloom.
Sometimes the flower that is chosen, we feel He's picked to soon.
We're at peace knowing; in God's heavenly garden,
He has placed the ones we treasure.
You have changed our lives forever.
May your family find comfort and forgiveness by focusing on the goodness you brought to others.

Posted by Adrienne Jones - Gastonia, NC - Co-worker   September 18, 2013

Zelda was a wonderful person, full of life, fun loving and made me laugh everytime I saw her. I will truly miss her.

Posted by Tammy Wilson - Columbia, SC - Friend   September 18, 2013

My condolences to the family may God be with you giving you strength to carry on. Sorry for your loss.

Posted by Beverly Bethea McRae - Millersville , MD - Friend   September 18, 2013

Zelda will be truly missed, praying for the family.

Posted by Yvonne K. Wilson - Irmo, SC - Co- Worker/Masonic Sister   September 18, 2013

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Zelda left to soon, but the memory of her smile will live on. May God’s grace be with the family and us friends.
Sincerely,
Lorraine

Posted by Lorraine - Baltimore, MD   September 18, 2013

Zelda will always be remembered as a kind and thoughtful persons. My prayers and thoughts are with the family.

Posted by Hiltra Watson - Bennettsville, SC - Classmate - Class of 1980   September 18, 2013

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My thoughts and prayers are with the family in their time of loss. May "GOD" be your strenght.

Posted by Roslyn Shaw - Columbia, SC - Friend & Church Member   September 18, 2013

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condolences to the family. she was a beautiful person.

Posted by Maggie Robinson - gastonia, NC - co worker   September 18, 2013

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When there is love, any life is too short. Zelda had a way of making the joys of life contagious. Zelda was one of the loveliest women I have ever known. No one who knew her could ever forget her charm and warmth. We spent many pleasant hours together, off the job as well as on and became fast friends. Bereavement is so personal that few of us, unless we have experienced it ourselves, can comprehend its grief. Your sister, Zelda was loved by all of us who worked with her. I hope that our caring will lessen the sorrow that you bear.

Posted by Barbara Dillard, Gaston County DSS - Gastonia, NC - Friend   September 18, 2013

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Zelda was my supervisor at Gaston Co. DHHS. It has been a distinct privelege to have known Zelda and to have worked under her direct supervision. We all loved her; no unkind word has been spoken of Zelda during her time with us in Gaston County, as she was well respected by all who knew her. I also remember her from S.C. DSS when I worked there, as our paths crossed there from time to time, as she traveled in the performance of her duties. She was a warm, caring lady who became a friend to all she met. She always had a smile on her face and she seemed to have joy in her heart. She seemed to be happy and content with her life as she made plans for her future travels. We will miss her so much. I am grateful to have known her, not just as my supervisor, but as my friend. I send my condolences to her family, of whom she has spoken so fondly, numerous times. May God comfort your hearts and grant you peace in this time of sorrow.

Posted by Wanda Z. Fincher - Gastonia, NC - co-worker    September 18, 2013

Zelda,

Our short conversations in the elevator will stay with me forever. I know your light will shine in the Health & Human Services Building for years to come.

Posted by Zay - Charlotte, NC - Co-Worker   September 18, 2013

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It is difficult to tell you how deeply I feel about Zelda's untimely death. What started out as a business relationship between Zelda and me quickly became a warm friendship. It was truly a privilege to have known her so well, and I will never forget her laughter, humor, thoughtfulness, and kindness. With great personal sorrow, I ask to share your loss and to extend my heartfelt sympathy.

Posted by Stephanie Stevenson - Charlotte, NC - Friend   September 18, 2013

Sending my thoughts and prayers for peace for your family. We here at Gaston County Aging Services will miss Zelda's smile and her enthusiasm for life. We are blessed to have known her this last year. Cathy Goodman

Posted by Cathy Goodman - Gastonia, NC - coworker   September 18, 2013

I am thankful to have known Zelda. She was a loved and respected supervisor in my division. We are praying for God's comfort for her family.

Sincerely,
BJ Hart

Posted by B. J. Hart - Gastonia, NC - co worker   September 18, 2013

I have such fond memories of working with and around Zelda. She was so friendly and full of life. Her smile and laugh were contagious. It hurts so much to think of this happening to her. My heart goes out to her family, friends and coworkers. Peace be with all...

Posted by Louann Sandel - Cayce, SC - Former coworkers   September 18, 2013

Dunbar Funeral Home and it's staff extend our deepest sympathy to the Kollock family at this very difficult time.

Posted by kristin Jewell - Columbia, SC   September 18, 2013


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To My Dearest Zelda, words cannot express my feelings and emotions during this time. We have shared so much since 1990 until the Angels came and take you away from me. Your presence in my life and my daughter’s life was a gift, which we will always cherish. I want you to know that you are a very special person and Heaven is the place where you will find so much comfort in you eternal life. Rest In Peace my dear friend and know that I loved you like a sister and you will always be India’s Auntie Zelda.

I just remember times with Sherelle Douglas. We were all so young and ambitious. You did well old friend. Take your rest.

Barry and Raymond, My heart goes out to you and the family. My memory of Zelda goes back to Shiloh Baptist Church in Bennettsville where our friendship developed.Zelda had a heart of gold and the biggest smile. Just remember God had plans for her and they are not here on earth. Praying for all of you. GOD is in Control!

Sharon Thomas

To Zelda's family she will be miss a lot,but that beautiful smile she always carry, I won't see it any
more,but it will be in my heart forever. God bless
the Kollock family

Zelda, you were one "bad" lady. You were confident, humble, genuine, humorous, smart, classy and had an impeccable sense of style/fashion. You not only commanded attention upon entering any room, you also set the tone. You were bigger than life and truly embodied the rhetoric "live life to the fullest". I am smiling as I recall the times we shared doing QA Reviews on and off the road. Although you are going to be truly missed, God has called you home so get those angels in line. My prayers are with your family as they grieve the loss of your physical presence. Rest on Zelda, job well done.

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I will always remember your smile. A lady with class. Rest in peace.

We will miss seeing Zelda's beautiful smile but will always remember the good times we've shared. May God continue to comfort her family and may Zelda rest in peace.